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Question: I just got the news that my father died last night.  We hadn't spoken in about 2 years and had been estranged for a very long time.  So, I'm thinking it might be good to know what our relationship was about, any unfinished karma and any suggestions for resolution?  I'm trying to decide if I want to attend the funeral.

The relationship between you and your father was very difficult. You of course know this and have known it for some time, even as a child. It was no surprise to you then when he more or less cut the energy cords between you. You felt this at the time but were not prepared emotionally at that time to really deal with the loss. There is a loss, then, not only of the father you had as an adult when this occurred but also of the father you always hoped and expected to have as a child. This was, for you, a deep and underlying lack that you have felt all this time. We would say at this time that in order for you to heal this perceived lack, you may wish to undertake a process of healing. For you, we would say that it could begin successfully with attending this your father's funeral and immersing yourself within the energy surrounding others’ experiences of loss of this man.

That is not to say that this would or even could be an easy experience for you; in fact, we suggest that it may be one of the harder things you have yet done in this lifetime. We would say, however, that in order to embark on the healing process which for you would involve filling up the emptiness of the perceived lack (and by this filling up we mean not simply an empty filling with mind-altering substances or additional relationships or anything else that may cause you and your family members pain, but instead we mean the kind of filling that can only be done from within, a regeneration of what might have occurred between you and your father in an exchange of energy had you chosen to take that path of relationship), and afterward sealing it within you without placing upon it any expectations of relationship for the future. This, of course, is an ideal time to do just that because your expectations of future relationship with this fragment within the scope of this lifetime are quite limited by the limiting nature of the physical plane. That is not to say that this energy exchange we spoke of could not take place upon the astral plane, and in fact this might be quite a viable solution for the two of you provided the man known to you in this lifetime as your father chooses to accept this and does not instead go toward some other venture. We would suggest, than, to avail yourself of the time you spend in dreamtime in order to make not only your wishes on this point clear with this fragment but also to begin the healing process itself. If it all seems rather murky and mysterious to you at this time, we will venture to say that all will most likely become more clear to you in time.

For you, this relationship was about loss, learning to deal with loss while at the same time finding fulfilling relationships with others. This is not an easy thing to do. For the man known to you as your father, the relationship between you was about letting go. This was very difficult for him, and in the end the only way he could manage it was to sever ties with you entirely. This was incredibly painful to him and it is possible that enough residual energy flow is left between you, surrounding him in the astral, that he will welcome an opportunity to heal this rift between you from the astral plane. We cannot of course guarantee this but it does seem likely, although we caution you that it will more than likely not be his main focus at this time. Your father is presently involved in an intense sort of review process that could take, in physical plane terms, several months. After this most souls tent to drift away and form groups with other newly transited souls while at the same time beginning to extend into what will ultimately be their main focus while on the astral plane between lives.

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